Boys don’t cry

Boys don’t cry !       The biggest mistake that people (in the Indian society) in general, and mothers in particular, make is to tell their sons: ‘Boys don’t cry!’ It’s not uncommon that the Indian households reverberate with the words ‘Are you a girl? Why are you crying?’, ‘Don’t be a sissy. Stop crying.’ The words would be repeated thousands and lakhs of times till they become part of a boy’s system… till the words get imbibed deep in his psyche. And all this is considered normal. As normal as feeding a child or educating him! It’s a natural part of bringing up a boy. On the other hand, girls are often told – ‘Why are you laughing so loud? Are you a boy?’ So what are we, as parents, trying to prove here? That it’s NOT okay for boys to cry and behave in a sensitive manner but it’s absolutely okay for girls to spend hours crying? Similarly, it’s NOT okay for little girls to laugh out loud and enjoy themselves while little boys can do so without second thoughts? Why is the Indian society trying to inculcate adulterated values in children? Isn’t it unfair that we expect the boys to be insensitive and rough while the girls are supposed to be meek and submissive? Instead of asking your girls to behave, it’s better to ask all children to behave in an understanding and respectful manner towards each other. Mothers, we say, have a much crucial and responsible role in making our boys more sensitive towards the needs of the fairer sex. Do not forget the influence of mothers like Jijabai in the life of sons like Chhatrapati Shivaji. Instead of throwing insults and threats like ‘How can you stay out late? Are you a girl or what?’ and ‘Don’t behave like a tomboy’ at your girls, isn’t it better to tell your boys to be nice, polite and friendly towards girls? Together, let us create a society free of the gender bias and discrimination towards our girls. Let’s not stop our girls from soaring and touching greater heights; let’s not stop our girls from laughing and our boys from crying. Instead, let us teach our boys that it is okay for them to be sensitive and cry once in a while… but it’s NOT okay for boys to make girls, or women, cry! It’s okay if grown-up guys have tears in their eyes while watching a sentimental scene in a movie, but it’s NOT okay for grown-up guys to bring tears to girls’ eyes. It’s okay for boys to wear pink instead of blue but it’s NOT okay for grown-up guys to act rough, violent, disrespectful and ill-tempered towards the fairer sex. Together, let’s pave way for a better society – one that promises a violence-free environment to nurture our future generations of boys and girls with care!  

Tips to fight flatulence

Tips to Fight Flatulence     How to cure Flatulence:Flatulence a very embarrassing problem for women and that too when in public usually occurs when a particular type of food you eat does not get digested as well as it should in your stomach and small intestine. When this largely undigested food reaches your large intestine, bacteria will begin to break it down and  it will start to ferment and cause gas in the stomach. Some of the foods which are likely to cause gas  could include: •Dairy products like processed cheese and panneer •Vegetables like onions, radishes, cabbage,  carrots, sprouts, broccoli, cauliflower and legumes, certain pulses and •Fruit sugar, which is especially high in prunes, raisins, bananas, apples, apricots and fruit juices from prunes, grapes and apples •Fiber foods and restaurant food where they put flavor additives. •Fatty foods and carbonated drinks and •Artificial sweeteners such as sorbitol, mannitol and xylitol may also cause flatulence. Tips to prevent Flatulence from building up Observe your eating habits and the food that you eat which can cause gassiness and avoid eating them for sometime till you are relived from the problem Drink probiotic milk which will keep your gut clean and subside gassiness. Exercising helps in ensuring the food gets digested quickly and prevent gas. Try including heat producing foods like pepper, coriander, peppermint and ginger in your foods. Drink lots of Rasam which is excellent as a digestive and helps control gas. Check out the other health benefits of Rasam…  

Studies prove Honey cure for Canker sores

Studies prove Honey cure for Canker Sores   Honey for mouth ulcers:Now for those who don’t use the word Canker sores which in normal parlance means ulcers or sores in your mouth. These mouth sores make it difficult for you to eat and talk and are caused either due to lack of Vitamin B and if the body produces too much heat, or triggered because of acidic content in certain citrus fruits. If the sores are severe it would be best to seek a doctor’s intervention and if it continues for more than three weeks you must visit the physician for treatment. One of the easiest and sweetest ways to cure these sores is by applying honey on the afflicted part. According to new research in the journal Quintessence International, honey can be just as safe and effective for treating canker sores as a topical corticosteroid. In this study, researchers randomly divided 94 subjects with 180 canker sores into three groups. One group was given honey to use as a treatment for the sores, and the other two groups were given a topical corticosteroid or Orabase treatment (a paste that acts as a protective barrier). All participants were asked to wipe the lesion with a sterile wet cotton pellet, and apply their given treatment to the spot after meals for eight days, stopping use if and when the canker sore was fully healed. They were also told to record pain level and any reactions in a journal, while the researchers evaluated the size and inflammation in the office over the course of the study. So the next time you have a mouth canker/sore apply honey to your heart’s content and you don’t need to worry if this goes inside your stomach either…

Why should I get the B12 Test done

Why should I get the B12 Test done? B12 Test in Women:You start feeling dizzy, unexplained fatigue, forgetfulness and you end up at the doctor’s clinic. The doctor examines you and prescribes a series of test including the B 12 test which is quite expensive. The first doubt would be as to what is the link between your symptoms and B 12? The common most problem among women apart from anemia, thyroid and calcium deficits is the low levels of B 12 vitamins. After the onset of marriage, motherhood and raising children, women tend to neglect their overall body health. Usually after breast feeding which depletes your calcium and vitamin levels this B12 deficiency puts the mother and child at risk for Neuro problems.   This test is prescribed when you start feeling these symptoms of fatigue, tingling in the hands and feet, problems with balance, confusion, weakness, loss of appetite and lethargy. Also, if your doctor suspects you might have anemia, you might be tested for B12 deficiency.Another reason is people who are vegetarians may not get their required dose of Vitamin B 12 which can be found more in meat and dairy products like, eggs, fish, poultry and meat. So additional supplements would be needed through medication, if the B12 levels are low. B12 is an important vitamin for many basic bodily functions, like the brain health, blood cell production, and proper nerve functioning. Low B12 levels can lead to serious nerve damage and deteriorating brain functions if not verified and treated properly. The test is fairly simple— a presription for the test and some blood drawn from your hand which only takes a few minutes, but can provide extremely valuable information about the presence or absence of this importnat vitamin in your body. As we grow older we need to get this test done as and when prescribed by your physician so that you maintain optimum levels of B12 for better health and energy.

Early age dieting affects health in older age

Early age dieting affects health in older age   Dieting at a young age:With young girls as young as 15 or even younger who have become conscious of their looks and weight due to peer pressure are not realizing the long term damage they may  be causing to their health later on. The earlier in life a woman starts dieting, the worse long-term consequences it can have for her health, a new study suggests. In the study, presented Tuesday at the meeting of the Society for the Study of Ingestive Behavior in Seattle, researchers asked 1,340 college-aged women when they first started dieting, and then followed them for 10 years to examine their dieting habits and health later in life. They found that an early age of first dieting was related to extreme weight-control behaviors, greater alcohol consumption and misuse, and a greater chance of being overweight or obese at the 10-year follow-up. Since the new study found a link between early dieting and later, risky health behaviors such as abusing alcohol or going on fad diets, it is important that parents, mentors, and health care providers screen young women for these types of behaviors such as fad dieting as it can impact their health negatively for years to come. The new research is a reminder that, while losing weight is generally good for health, an unbalanced approach may lead to health issues such as eating disorders in the long run and  the only solution to this is to  make permanent lifestyle changes, ideally with the help of a professional.

Dont fall prey to Lifestyle diseases

Dont fall prey to Lifestyle diseases Women's health:As a working women or housewife health is the next important priority we must give apart from our family. If you are healthy and fit you can take care of things at home and work. According to a recent ASSOCHAM survey, three out of four working women in India, in the age group of 32 to 58 years, suffer from lifestyle, disease and around 42 per cent of them suffer from problems like backache, obesity, depression, diabetes, and hyper-tension and heart ailments.     The need to balance work and home adds to this as we end up neglecting our health. We have health information at our finger tips, gyms close to our houses , Yoga sessions happening right in our apartments . Too tired to make your salad, you have people getting chopped salads and juices at your door steps! And yet we fail to make use of these and neither do we motivate ourselves to work at home. There is no alternative and we need to wake up and smell the coffee and take that step to health and fitness. There are four simple ways to stay healthy and keep stress at bay and they are: Regular exercise & workout Fix and have a balanced diet which has to be filling and filled with the right nutrients Manage work life balance and manage Stress. Make out some personal time for yourself and pursue your hobbies. Professional success is your birth right but so is good health and to attain this you shouldn’t let yourself fall prey to these lifestyle diseases.   Stay Fit and Stay Healthy!

Losing Hair- It could be your new job

Losing Hair ? It could be your new job   Hair loss and thinning are termed as an issue of the males. As women we are also  prone to some form of hair loss, when we are sick, when feeding, hormonal imbalance, female alopecia, etc. Off late stress is also playing a great deal on the loss of hair. Joining a new job or any new work can affect your hair. You can talk about weight loss, acne or bad makeup but when it comes to thinning of the crown area it does get a bit embarrassing. The more you worry and think about any issues can cause hair fall.    Now that we have identified the many reasons why we have hair loss, lets get into action. 1. First Stop stressing about your tresses. 2. Get your thyroid levels tested. If there is any imbalance you need to work on our metabolism and take thyroid medication and start exercising to increase metabolism. 3. Eat lots of fiber. Fiber lowers estrogen levels in the body. Make sure your diet includes complete proteins like meat, poultry, fish or legumes, which are excellent sources of lysine and good for your hair. 4. Try and Lose Weight. If you are obese or overweight, weight loss will reduce your excess estrogen levels and lower your risk hair loss. 5. Visit a Trichologist. If the hair loss is extreme and you start seeing the shiny scalp visit a good trichologist and get yourself treated. Whatever the reason may be, work on yourself and don’t let hair loss be a deterrent to an active healthy life.  

Handling Puberty in Girls – 2

Handling Puberty in Girls – 2   In the first part of  Handling Puberty in Girls - 1 we dealt with the emotional aspects about how to prepare the child to handle puberty on its onset, what to do, how to understand the body growth etc. In the second part we shall talk about essential nutrients & right diet for a healthy growth of the child during Puberty. Calcium intake in the forms of low fat curd or milk, low fat cheese can be consumed to avoid calcium deficiency. Yogurt is also a good source of calcium. The traditional sesame seeds sweet made with jaggery and sesame seeds are an excellent form of calcium. Avoid eating junk food as they can put on weight which leads to puppy fat.This becomes difficult to lose in the later years. Iron is needed as they need iron to replace the blood lost during menstruation. Food rich in iron like whole grain, beans, lean beef and fish must be consumed. You can also consult your physician and get Iron supplements which can be taken to replenish the folic levels in the body for some time. Proteins and fats are very essential for the growth of your child. During puberty girls need proteins to build muscles and other body tissue. It prepares them for their daily activities. Along with this a appropriate amount of fat  are also needed for growth and energy. Unsaturated fats that occur naturally, in salmon, nuts and olive oil are best source of energy. Check this Video for more details about the  Diet and Exercise during Puberty