Pain or Pleasure

Ever wondered on the way we evolve in life? Whether we realise it or not, we acknowledge it or not we evolve. Every human being will learn survival technics from the experiences they go through in life. It starts right from our birth. We all have come in to this world crying, indeed someone pinched us if we were not cried at the time of birth.. Eventually people taught us smile, laugh, fear  and react to different  situations with different emotions.

When we grow up or while growing, so called people again pinch us. Some times, we don't emote as they expect us to do or at times we will go to further extent and  cry even...But this time we have añ option of crying or ignoring.

When we born, we were not knowing or understanding any other language of this universe to announce our arrival in to this world so we had to cry.. But once you are in to this world, if you have to announce your sustainability to the world then crying is not at all a good option. “Why not? this is also an emotion” you may ask, but when your emotions become entertainment to others, and you realise this very fact then, stop pouring out your pain and refrain immediately. Because emotions are not used for entertainment unless we are paid for it.

If someone's action or reaction is hurting you making you weep inside, then the problem is lying in you not else where. Someone is pinching you by expecting you to giggle or cry, and  you react accordingly to their calculations then they continue to do this when ever they want. If you are standstill when they pinch, they never attempt to do so as they don't see any fun in this activity. That's why, we never come across anyone who go on pinching rocks or statues or any object which won't react.

When someone is often  causing us pain with their words and deeds, if your reaction is the same pain as they want you to experience then this will go endlessly.  For a change, stop reacting to their actions, trust me they withdraw from you slowly and fadeout.

So, choice is yours either to take pain or put a full stop.

--Bhavana