Face-To-Face Positions and The Pillow Trick

As an act of love and the sacrament of a relationship, intercourse generally seems more 'natural' in the face-to-face postures. The fact that you can talk to one another, look at one another, caress one another, and lie in one another's arms makes the whole thing seem more personal and intimate. Face-to-face postures make the wife feel more like an equal party in the act instead of like 'someone it's being done to, not a participant'. Moreover, the fact that she can move fairly freely in most face-to-face positions makes the added stimulations of reciprocal action available, while most approaches from the side or rear keep her motionless and passive.

Assuming for the moment that the wife lies on her back with her husband approaching from directly above her, let us see what the effect of various back and leg position has upon the stimulations of intercourse.

The Pillow Prick :-

If the wife keeps her legs down flat on the bed and tucks a pillow under the small of her back so that it supports her spine in a position which increases the depth of its normal hollowness, her pelvis tips considerably towards the rear. This brings the clitoris into firmer contact with the shaft of the bormally entering penis. A slight headward shift of the husband's body increases the amount of friction on the clitoris even more. If he further allows his trunk to drop parallel to hers, letting as much of his weight as she can comfortably tolerate actually rest upon her upper abdomen, clitoris stimulation becomes quite intense.

Aside from variety for itw own sake, this position serves several special needs. A woman with a high-placed or relatively insensitive clitoris can often attain much keener stimulation in this way than with any other position, at least until her feminine responsiveness has been fully awakened by repeated satisfying incidents.

Almost every woman who attains orgasm much more readily through finger stimulation than through intercourse has a high or insensitive clitoris and will benefit from legs-down, arched-back postures until full responsiveness has been established. No amount of sexual activity will get her over this hump as long as stimulation of other areas occur during intercourse and stimulation of the clitoris only before and afterwards. Surprisingly few episodes of total satisfaction will suffice to make all forms of intercourse gratifying for her, however, and an unvaried routine of pillow-trick episodes need not be carried out for more than a few weeks to make lifelong differences in her pattern of responsiveness.

The pillow-trick position also serves a special need during the first few sexual episodes after childbirth. Most obstetricians make a small cut along the rear margin of the feminine opening during delivery of a baby to permit delivery without execessive stretching of the tissues. This area often remains rather sore for several weeks after delivery, and may give an occasional twing of pain for some time after that. The pillow trick concentrates sexual friction along the vagina's front rim and spares the more sensitive rear margin until healing is comfortably complete.

Finally, the plump woman who has difficulty in pleasing her husband after repeated childbearing because of lax tissues may find this position very helpful. The pillow trick snugs up the female organs in their contact with the penis, especially if the surrounding tissues are well padded with fat.