Preliminary Love Play In ..

In sexual intercourse, there is more than stimulation and excitation of genitals. It is therefore an essential part of exotic intimacy that a husband should pay some attention to preliminary love play in preparation for intercourse. While it is true that the entire skin area in human beings is receptive to erotic stimuli, we may enumerate some particularly sensitive areas of skin and body, the so-called erogenous zones; this list should, however, be taken with some reserve and not be considered as a scale of values or a recipe for a sequence of areas to be contacted before and during sexual activity.

For a male it would be better, if he begin his expressions of tenderness by touching first those erogenous areas that are furthest removed from the genital organs. As already told that the plam is an area of the body that is not only a donor but also a receptor of erotic stimuli, particularly by rhythmic stroking, pressure, and kisses. The bend of the elbow are still more excitable like walking arm in arm and the outerside of the thigh like walking close together. Then comes the innerside of upper arm and the hair line on the back of the neck are also the places which can excite a woman's body. The same can be said for the dimple behind the ear. This is the reason many females apply perfume in order to attract the male to this spot. For a more stronger stimuli, the areas of the nect and the upper part of the back upto the blades of the shoulder are perfect places.

The breasts, including the areola and nipple particularly, are most responsive in the majority of women. However, many women find touching the breasts or playing with them unpleasant if their partner begins too soon or too roughly. The waist, hips and lower part of the back including the sacral area, respond to stronger stimuli. The buttocks usually require stronger stimuli but are receptive to delicate stimuli at the transition zones to the back and inner side of the thigh. At the same time touching the delicate skin on the inner side of the thigh has powerful effect on a woman whose excitement has already begun and, provided the touch is gentle and not too premature, it will make her all the readier to open herself to her partner.

Direct stimulation of the genetals embraces the whole frudendal region with variations from almost casual stroking through playful rhythmic touch to intense and continued contact. The lips, the vestibule of the vagina, and the clitoris should all be involved in this play. At this stage when the female partner shows her willingness that she is ready for the union, the man should proceed further but not forgetting to continue his love play.

Erotic zones in male are more sparse than in a female. The only response to stimuli is centred in genitals in man. The female recognises his attempts by stroking his hands, his head, his lips and his hair, arms and legs, to increase the excitement. One should remember that all this may bring a man's excitement to a peak surprisingly very rapidly and cause him to ejaculate, especially if he is inexperienced or has difficulty in holding back for his wife's sake. A wife experienced in love will almost always have a desire to touch the penis and grasp it, and many men find this exciting. However, every woman at first feels shy about touching the penis, and there are many men who do not like to be touched there. This is a matter for matual understanding of the partners, and there is no general rule.