Very soon we will all wave goodbye to the year 2005 and welcome 2006. At the same pace January will also pass away and then the lovely February comes. Want to know why am I calling February lovely? Well it is the month of making and expressing love to that special person of your life as said by St. Valentine. Now you got it why is February so lovely? Well if you have already found that special person of your life then stop reading this! This is for those who have to appease and convince their crushes and get prepared for a Valentine date. But if you are the one who is thinking of different ways to express love then you are on the right track.

The whole system of finding a date or the love of your life starts with friendship. I don’t mean to become the best of friends but at least know a bit about each other. Make your presence felt. Sit and chat for long hours. Compatibility is what you have to look for. Who would like to date a boring person?

Now that you are on the track, start with complimenting and appreciating her on her small little things. Please be real! She will love you for your noticing capability. I know guys find it difficult to notice things except for sexy legs, cleavages and …Ok. You guys know all that. So guys start noticing! After you shower her with compliments, she will surely choose to go out with you anywhere on earth. Now this is the golden chance. Hit the bull’s eye guys! Not what you guys are thinking of; there is still time for that. Hang around with her. Keep yapping and see to that she doesn’t get bored. Make your presence indispensable. Be available even in the 12th hour of the night. Once you are convinced she needs you, start playing the trick of being busy often and not be able to meet her. This is the testing period guys. If she misses you, put on the second gear.

Now you guys are not “just friends”. Remember, a girl never goes around with just a friend. You mean something more to her. Now this is the time for you to take her out. To start with ask her out for movie. And for heavens sake don’t take her for an Arnold or Sunny Deol starrer. Comedy or romantic are the options. And don’t try to get your hands on her in the movie hall. There is still time tiger! When taking her out act like a proper gentleman, afterall she is the lady of your life. Be courteous, pull the chair for her, open the door for her and don’t sniffle for small things around you. You are the HERO and nothing can bother a hero. Last but not the least; play with your sense of humour in the right sense. It is difficult to get a smile on one’s face but not impossible. Get that Jhonny Lever out of your systems!

After endowing her with the worlds best companionship, began your next meetings by gifting her small gifts, not very expensive ones. It can be flowers, chocolates, cards of ‘Special Person’ etc. Moreover, you can compliment her by saying, “You should be arrested because looking so good is illegal”. She will be definitely flattered with this compliment of yours. Now that she is comfortable with you, in a very chivalrous manner tell her what she means to you and how important is she for you. Tell her everything except for those three words. Those three words cannot be just told like that. You have to fix a date for that. Ask her for a date. The reply will be of a positive one. So guys start preparing, there is no time! This dinner of her life should be the best one.

The ‘D’ day has come. Welcome her with flowers and in a very mysterious way tell, “You look a lot like my stunning girlfriend”. By saying this you have already won her and have another half way to go. Remember a candle night dinner is a must. The table should be laid perfectly for the lady. Now the chance comes of gifting something expensive and for her smile the toast should be raised with champagne. After that lovely sip of the drink, propose and rightly shoot those three eternal words. After her consent, announce to the whole world seated there that she is your life. Congrats! You have won the battle and have become the Hero of a gorgeous looking lady. Before filling yourself with that delicious food, ask her for a dance. Guys, dance actually creates a magical chemistry amid two souls. So, go for it. After dinner drop her back home and if you think you can bid her a ‘Bye Bye Kiss’, give her one. Also, give her the “I will miss you look”. Surely, she will die to meet you again.

To keep the love saga going, send her a sweet SMS immediately after you drop her. Please don’t send any of those forwards. Next you can send her flowers late in the evening or early next morning thanking her for such a lovely evening. The last thing that you can do to make her think about you till next morning is, give her a call just before she sleeps and say something naughty and cute quickly and put down the phone.

Now the queen is all yours! From now on, you can romance and gift her whatever you feel like. The gifts can be an exotic body wrap, a hug or even a kiss. To finish it, dare not forget her birthday. If you do, be prepared for a disastrous break up. Put reminders and serve her at your best.

By following the above-mentioned strategy, you will surely have a date for the coming Valentine’s Day. So what are you waiting for? Christmas? Start now!!!