In a relationship, displays of affection are a must, and rather than take the conventional path of saying “I love you” why not try something different? They say that actions speak louder than words so we thought of putting together a list of things that you should try if you’re in love. Here are some unique ways to tell your woman that you love her and also score some major brownie points.
Cook for her :-
I think too many men spend time away from the kitchen. Well here’s a little secret. Women love a man who can cook. So, the next time she comes home all tired from work, surprise her with a nice home cooked meal made by yours truly. Of course Maggi noodles and sandwiches do not qualify. Get a cook book and prepare a whole meal. Throw in some candlelight and soft music and she will feel like the luckiest woman on earth.
The surprise shopping trip
As much as women enjoy receiving gifts every now and then, the surprise value has diminished a bit. On your day off, when she’s least expecting it, take her to the mall and ask her to buy whatever she wants. Retail therapy works wonders for women and the fact that you have taken interest in shopping with her will make her even happier. Alternately, if you noticed that she had liked something but did not buy it because she was low on cash, pick it up anyway, wrap it up and surprise her.
In most relationships today, both couples have very serious, competitive careers that take up most of their time. The common complaint is that there isn’t enough time to spend with each other. Even on the weekends, you find yourself caught up with chores and other things that take up your time. So this time proactively mark out a date on your calendar, plan a romantic trip out of the city, switch your cell phone off and get that fire roaring again.
Men tend to be takers more than givers, and although your woman may not complain, deep inside she wishes you’d be a little more considerate. So think about pampering her too. Give her a nice body massage with hot oils, prepare a hot bath for her, make her breakfast in bed and drive her to work whenever you can. Not only will she love you more, you can rest assured she will be bragging about you to all her friends.
Help her connect with other important people in her life :-
A relationship can get suffocating at times and spending time away from each other may not be the worst thing in the world. A strong, secure couple understand the importance of having their own identity and a life beyond the relationship. Buy her movie tickets for her and her mom, or book a spa package for her and her best friend. She will appreciate the thought and you also get time to do things with your buddies. Love requires effort that is more than just verbal. The little things that you do for your woman will go a long way in strengthening the relationship. So go ahead and tell her you love her, in more ways than one.