In the honeymoon period, a woman achieves keen sexual excitement or climax only through stimulation of the clitoris. This small, rod-shaped structure becomes firm enough to be readily distinguished from the surrounding tissues only during sexual excitement, and lies beneath the folds of skin at the front corner of the female opening. Practically all feminine erotic sensitivity centres in it until sexual experience enlivens other areas.
In about a year, howeverm the pattern of erotic sensitivity changes. Nerve fibres throughout the female organs tie themselves in with the sexual response. The clitoris, once essential to womanly gratification, can be totally removed without any impairment of feminine pleasure. By the time the joys of the discovery have passed and sexual boredom becomes a real threat, many portions of the female organs respond at least as keenly to caress as the clitoris.
A long time husband can do a great deal to relieve his wife of sexual boredom and add both the charm of novelty and the new excitement of varied sexual stimulations to his wife's enjoyment by breaking out of the pattern of play he learned in the early days of marriage. If you take full advantage of all the erotically sensitive areas around your wife's now-fully-responsive female organs, you can bring her to a high plateau of sexual excitement long before you want or need the culmination of intercourse, and keep on that mutually gratifying plateau for many delightful and love-inspiring moments. Five different areas generally proe worthy of attention.
1. The Clitoris :-
Although no longer the only touchstone of orgasmic success, the clitoris remains sexually sensitive throughout married life. Although it tends to be almost indistinguishable from surroundings tissues except during sexual excitement, an aroused woman's clitoris becomes quite irm to the touch and swells to deminsions of perhaps 1/2 inch across and 3/4 inch in length. You can easily find it by following the inner lips forward with your finger until they join, then feeling for a firm rod beneath the thin skind just in from of that junction, still within the protective folds of the fuller 'outer lips' at the female organ's ides.
The public bone lies just above and behind the clitoris, giving a firm backing against which you can roll or massage it with your fingertip or knuckle. The layer of tissue which covers the clitoris is rather delicate and sensitive, how- ever, so that a harsh or unlubricated surface may cause discomfort when pressed firmly enough to produce slitorine stimulation. Fingernails should be terminated and fiels, and either saliva or vaginal fluid (available only an inch or two away) used for lubrication if the clitoris zone feels dry. Fingertip massage stimulates the clitoris quite effectively.
Catching the clitoris between your finger and the under- lying bone, you can stroke along its length from base to tip or from tip to base, slowly or rapidly one way with interrupted contact from the 'return trip' or back and forth with continuous contact, gently or fairly firmly. The actual tip of your finger proves more effective than its pulp, both because it is harder and because a small caressing part which can run up and down along the clitoris only presses continuously on this fairly deep-lying organ and makes friction only at the body surface. Side-to-side movement across the clitoris can be performed with the pulp of the finger, since the pressure- and-release that comes from 'rolling-pin' action stimulates the whole organ intermittently. This action can be performed near the tip of the clitoris or at its base, where it becomes indistinguishable from surrounding tissue.
The Inner Lips :-
In the unexcited woman, the inner lips are small folds of loose, thin tissue, one at each side of the vagina's frong corner of the vagina, and narrow down until they taper out completely about halfway down the female organ's sides. Intensive sexual excitement makes the inner lips engorge and swell to two or three times their resting size, generally making them pout out between the surroundings folds and present at the body surfaces as an inverted V of tissue along the female organ's frontmost rim.
After few months of satisfying cohabitation have fully awake- ned feminine ardour, the inner lips become extremely sensitive sexually. A brief detour to the moist lubrication pools which generally accumulate along the back portion of the vagina's wall helps to prepare the finger for light, preliminary caress-the thin, sensitive skin over the inner lips can easily be overstumulated with harsh, unlubricated contact. Fingernails should be kept well trimmed or filed in preparation for this caress, also.
The pulp of the finger, the side of the finger shaft, or the knuckle of a culed-up-index finger makes a good agent for caress. Gentle tickling makes a good start. You can alco elicit keen response by stroking from front to back along one side, then the other. A finger placed just within the female opening and moved in gentle but rapid circles around and around its rim stimulates the inner lips quite keenly.
Light stroking can be made even more effective by exposing portions of the inner lips to caress which ordinarily are protected from stimulation by surrounding tissues and which therefore respond vigorously to unaccustomed touch. You can use the thumb and middle finger to spread the outer lips wide and tickle with the tip of the index finder along the base of the inner lips along each side of the organ or along the inner surface of the inner lips at the front rim of the vagina. where the tissue ordinarily lies back against other smooth, unstimulating folds.
You can get a similar effect by drawing one of the outer lips upward and to the side with your thumb or with your middle, ring, and little fingers so that the inner lip stands out as a ridge on a flat plain of tissue. Gentle stroking or titillation along either the inner or the outer margin of this ridge then stimulates nerve fibres ordinarily shielded from any friction, and incites somewhat more intensive sensations than you can elicit from friction-toughened structures.
Althoug moisture-lubricated gentle stroking of the inner lips will carry almost any woman to a high plateau of sexual excitement and keep her there, brief flurries of more intensive stimulation help to provide variety. As excitement mounts, the inner lips become larger and thicker until you can pick them up between moisture-lubricated thumb and forefinger and stroke down their length with a sort of milking motion. Or you can bend your fingers and catch one liner lip between the middle segments of your index and middle digits; stimulataneously placing your thumb against the clitoris. Gently grinding the inner lip between the two fingers while stimulating the clitoris with rolling pin motions or length wise thumb caresses creates an exquisite combination of sensations
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