Telling someone how you feel about them can be quite a tricky task. Love letters, thankfully, are a really great way to send your feelings across and hopefully get a favourable response. Think you need some help with writing one? Here are a few basic tips on how to get going. Use a pen and paper The good old days of handwritten letters score over the modern typed out ones any day. Get yourself a nice letter writing pad at the stationary store, possibly a nice fragrant pen and you are good to go. Women go all mushy with stuff like this. Be yourself Don’t try to get too typecast with cliché lines. This is about how you feel about her.
Be as real as you can. It helps when you think about how she makes you feel as you are writing. This will bring out what you truly want to say to her. Don’t ramble Women love to read but they can get bored if you don’t get to the point soon enough. There should be some direction with the way you write. Don’t aimlessly wander about how pretty she looks or how she makes your heart skip a beat. Have a structure that includes how things were before you met her, how she changed your life, what you love most about her and where you want things to go with the two of you. Throw in tons of compliments Women love compliments! So make sure you go generous on her, but don’t overdo it.
Of course she is beautiful but is she really the most beautiful girl in the world? Rather than go with the usual run of the mill plastic affection that most smart women today can see through anyway, talk about how the qualities you like about her make you a better person or how she inspires you to do things you’ve never tried before. The closer you get to saying what you truly feel, the better it will sound when she reads it, even if it comes to her paying her a compliment.
Don’t aim to have a textbook letter Most men think that if their love letter looks like it’s out of a movie they will get their girl all mushy. Not really. Women love the effort that goes into writing a letter just as much as she likes reading what’s inside it. So even if it’s not the best love letter ever written, she will appreciate the fact that you took the time out to write to her. Very few men are expressive with their feelings, so as long as you remain true to yourself, even if it’s not the best one written, it will make her melt. At the end of the day, writing a love letter is just about putting across what you feel on paper. It doesn’t have to get complicated. The more real your feelings are, the easier it is to write. Just stick to these guidelines and you should do just fine.